By Steve Smith, Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus Board of Directors
Frequently the brightest spot in anyone’s day is the person who looks after their hair. In those intimate conversations, we trust that person with news, opinions, and world-problem-solving. During the pandemic, Curtis Marsh became one of those pilgrims who made house calls to keep people presentable, sane, and somewhat connected to other humans. Imagine the brightest of bright spots once a month outside on the little deck at my place!
We sang together in the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus, which gives voice through song to a community where everyone matters. When Curtis joined in 2019, we had just been invited to work with the Oakland Symphony Chorus to perform Beethoven pieces with Emmanuel Ax under Michael Morgan’s direction. As an accomplished Tenor, Curtis was thrilled with the opportunity and plunged into performance mode. An amazingly rewarding cooperative experience was the result.
Curtis was born to perform and to delight audiences. He brought style and verve to every event, large and small. While everyone was scrambling to make things work during the pandemic, Curtis was one of our group of 70 or so who could not safely sing inside with large groups of people, so he and I kept up through the monthly haircut housecalls.
A favorite set of conversations about travel and keeping in touch with friends and family despite every obstacle were Curtis’ grand plans for his High School Reunion to be held this past summer back in Iowa. Although some classmates apparently proposed a fairly modest one-evening event, Curtis was determined to expand the scope and see to it that a 3-day party was in order. Sending wigs and gowns ahead, Curtis arranged an evening for all at Roederer’s Pit Stop in Burlington IA. I can only imagine the sheer delight he created for all those folks he used to know.
His murder Saturday is all about shock and horror. How much hate can there be lurking in the soul of some other person in a sweet Oakland neighborhood where Curtis had lived among friends for 15 years? The life force of this man was a gift deserving love, gratitude, and applause. We salute Curtis and will rely upon law enforcement in Oakland to apprehend his killer and to prevent that evil from continuing in our community.
With love from the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus.